not brave enough to make a move?
Ok so you’re walking down the street and you see a very hot girl you like but for some reason you’re stuck.You have absolutely no idea what to say to her.Now what? You don’t just want to walk away. I mean what if you never see her again and what if this is your one and only change at talking to this girl.What would you do?What would you say? You’re shaking in your boots and you’re as nervous as an ally cat.I know that feeling all too well to be honest.Growing up as a kid under heavy peer pressure I can assure you I know exactly how you feel.Luckily I learn’t a thing or two about women and I’m gonna share something with you pal:)
You don’t have to do anything crazy or dramatic to do this.In fact, you probably shouldn’t. Just smile at her from across the room, excuse yourself as you brush past her, or just lock eyes, look away, and then look back at her after enough time has passed. Its important to keep up confident body language as you approach. Keep your head up high, your gaze straight ahead of you, and maintain good posture as you approach her.You don’t have to say hi right away, its important to start with eye contact and a very confident body tone because hey,chicks dig the confidence no doubt.It’s all about timing though because if you take to long to say hi she might feel like she’s being ignored.
This should be a no brainer but alot of guys actually mess this part up for some reason.Don’t let it be you my dude.All you have to do is say, “Hello, I’m (insert name) what’s your name?” Or, “I’m Joe. It’s nice to meet you.” You could also start by asking her about something you have in common, ie: a class you both share. When she responds and gives you her name, reach out and lightly shake her hand. Don’t be awkward about it.Keep it simple and natural.Don’t and I repeat don’t use no lame pick up lines.They actually never work.You’re honestly going to look like a douche bag and we don’t want that now do we?
just be yourself
Loosen up and let this girl see who you really are. If you’re a goofy, funny guy, make her laugh.Trust me,that’s a huge plus.whatever you do, make sure you don’t spend the whole time talking about yourself, ask her about herself and even if you’re not, you should act genuinely interested in her answer.
- Remember that, while it’s important to be yourself, you should hold back on the more eccentric stuff, the kind of qualities that make people say, “You have to get to know him first…” You don’t want to creep her out! Try to talk about things she might be interested in as well.
be a good listener
Normally a girl would have a whole lot more to say more than a guy and that’s good.Now is your chance to show her you’re genuinely interested in her by listening to her.Don’t get emotional with her as yet,just show support and provide her with the comfort of having someone to share her thoughts with.That type of companionship always leaves a good impression and chances are she will want to talk to you again and open up even more.
It’s really not as hard is you think it is.Rejection is very possible but that should never stop you from trying.there are plenty of girls out there waiting to be approached by a guy like you.If you want to be a total badass with women I definitely recommend you check out The tao of badass by Josh Pellicer.