No matter what you do there will always be haters. You can be rich,poor,cute or ugly, there will always be haters.
A hater can be anyone. A family member, a friend, a colleague, a teacher, a boss, or some random person you meet on the street or the Internet. People who were friends forever can suddenly be haters.
Most haters are just invisible, anonymous, just trying to get in your head because that’s their particular method of having a human connection.
I always find myself on a lot of people’s envy list. Does it affect me? Heck no. There are smart ways to deal with hate which I’m going to discuss.
WHY DO PEOPLE HATE ON OTHERS?
Well that’s actually pretty simple. When someone feels inferior or slighted, they often express their feelings in the form of jealousy or hate. These feelings can cause uncomfortable situations and make you feel bad for your success.
Don’t let them get to you. If you’re living the life others want but don’t pursue out of their own doubt, they blame you. Its messed up I know, but that’s the price we’re going to pay on the path to success.
DEALING WITH HATERS
1. Don’t take it personal
If anyone has a problem with you, that’s their problem, not yours. Avoid taking negative chatter and rumours personally because people always find a reason to talk.
Believe in yourself and stay confident always. If they start talking that means you’re doing something good.
2. Simply Ignore Them
It can be hard to ignore every single negative thing a person say but its worth it. You don’t want to give too much attention to somebody that’s obviously doing or saying things to get to you.
If Lil Wayne or 50 cent answered a rapper calling them out with a small fan base that will obviously benefit him. Acknowledge your position and why someone would spread rumors. Once you do you will feel good smiling away.
3. Embrace It
Like I said, no matter what you do, there will be haters. Its something unavoidable no matter what you do. You might as well expect it and embrace that hate.
The key here is to remain positive and overcome negative people and their foolishness.
4. Surround Yourself With A More Positive Crowd
If you surround yourself with haters guess what you’re going to be? Yes, a good for nothing gossiper yourself.
Friends can and will have a huge influence on the choices you make in life. Choose wisely.
5. Stand Up For Yourself When Necessary
If they’re going to talk, let them talk. If they cross the line, set boundaries. Don’t be a push over. Some people tend to be rude with their words even going as far as death threats.
If you feel like your personal space has been violated feel free to take the necessary actions against that individual. I’m talking about stalkers and other sick creeps. Use the law to your advantage though and don’t catch a case lol.
Don’t be a push over and also don’t take haters too seriously. Live your life to the fullest and stay positive always.