Life is all about learning and growing and I believe it should be in everyone’s interest to want to be better.If you’re one of those seeking improvement in certain areas of life then you came to the right place.
Below I have compiled 5 ways to help you become your greatest version.
1. STOP MAKING EXCUSES
I used to be that guy who made excuses for everything and to be honest, I felt like shit afterwards.Sure I blamed others for my mistakes and I didn’t use to own up to my faults.In the long run you’re not going to get much done and in most cases,no one is going to want you around.Long story short I learned that taking accountability for your own mistakes is extremely important. I stopped making excuses, took the blame when it was truly my fault, and was able to achieve so much more. Now I am the boss of my life and I feel awesome.
2. Stop being so emotional
It’s a sure path to self destruction.Many people let anger and rage alter their decision-making skills. If I’m in a business meeting for example and a potential investor criticize’s my work, I know that it really is nothing personal but unfortunately,most people get edgy for even the simplest things. Being or Staying angry doesn’t help me or solve any problems, it only creates more of them. Find some way of relaxing your nerves when you’re angry, it might take some practice but who says its impossible?
3. listen to others
Everyone is usually about getting their business done I know but take some time to really listen when someone is speaking.You will learn so much from others by paying them attention. Better yet, solving their problems.
Let’s face be honest here,we all have problems and 99% of the time they are seeking answers.If you want to be a better person, you provide value.The value can be something as simple as a hug or some other form of comfort to directing them to a life changing product.Possibilities are endless so why not give it a try.
4. be honest
It’s very easy to tell a lie and I bet even a little white lie can make you feel better about yourself.Fact is,its never profitable in the long run and chances are you’re going to get in trouble for being a dirt bag.
Challenge yourself to be honest by developing good habits. If you’re a compulsive liar, start small by trying to be honest for 1 day. After you accomplish a smaller goal, increase the goal by 2 or 3. Chances are you will feel awesome afterwards.
5. be willing to change your ways
I saved the obvious for last.In order to become a better person, you have to be willing to change. Change is the only way to grow and progress into the person you want to become.How exactly are you going to get to the next level in your spiritual,mental or even physical growth if you are to stubborn to even make the decision in the first place.
Many people are against change, which can make it very hard to grow. When you keep an open mind and are willing to change, you are able to grow into the person you want to become.