Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings. Everyone wants to feel loved from the cat in the room to the guy next door. To some, it’s a piece of cake to find someone they truly feel emotionally attached to but for others? not so much. So you find someone you like, what now? You gotta make move but how? Your thoughts are now all over the place and you’re trying to figure out what to do next. I know, it could be a drag.
Some people are smooth and some get stuck at hi. No matter where you are it doesn’t hurt to get a few tips. I mean that’s what the internet is for. Chances are you’re here to learn and improve on your skills. I complied a list below to help with that.
1. FIND OUT WHAT HE OR SHE LIKES
Let’s assume you already actually started a conversation. What now? That’s right, you have to build rapport. For those who don’t know, it means getting to understand each other’s feelings or ideas and communicate well. If you’re going to ask someone out that’s obvious. Isn’t it? If he or she is a gamer or a comic book fan for example, go to an arcade or a comic book expo. Why not go see the next spider-man movie? See, there is no understanding without proper means of communication in the first place.
2. BE STRAIGHT FORWARD
I am by no means a dating guru but I do know that being upfront about your feelings is better than playing ring around the rosie. No one likes a dishonest person and if you want this girl/guy then go for it. Based on society’s configured standard, the fear of rejection is the norm. Is it? But what does normal even mean? Who decide’s what is normal or what isn’t? We are programmed to be “normal” so it’s no surprise that taking a risky approach gets you better results. This doesn’t just work with dating but with every aspect of life. Long story short, grow a pair and take a bold step.
3. DO SOMETHING ROMANTIC
This one is a major plus and it just might get you more than just a date 😉 Ok so this one requires a little background check so if you’re creative then this could create a wow factor. Ofcourse you can do this anytime whether you’re in or trying to get in a relationship. How you ask? Well it’s obvious. Surprise her/him.
Do something really sweet like get him that new fifa game he keeps talking about or get her that new make up kit. You might look at this like some form of bribing but let’s face it. Who doesn’t like to be spoiled. This tip of course is assuming you have done number 1, finding out what he/she likes. Like I said, I’m no expert so it is ultimately up to you to find what works for you. Good luck.